Leaving a journal legacy: Beyond “Dear Diary”

A Journal Legacy | A Journal Legacy | Help teens create a goldmine of unforgettable snapshots of the people in their life

JOURNALING can be the perfect activity to engage students in the writing process.

With no demands for extensive planning or revision, journals can chronicle your children’s maturing abilities, interests, and attitudes. A journal allows the creative student to unleash a host of ideas about current pursuits and future dreams.

As a journaling veteran, however, I caution you to beware, lest your kids start wandering into Dear Diary territory!

Emotional Diary . . . or Purposeful Journal?

A writing devotee by age eight, I entered the realm of embarrassing revelations when I turned thirteen. Soon, several diaries overflowed with my adolescent emotions, self-critiques of my personal appearance, and many internal debates.

Dreaming of a future marked by literary fame, I shielded myself from the awful truth: most of my “dear diary” entries were, at best, reserved for a shredder (or a bonfire, if my future self were to take a dramatic turn of mind)!

I knew better. After all, I had proudly worn my teen-volunteer badge at homeschool conventions and taken copious notes on myriad subjects. I still remember the afternoon session taught by the scholarly Miss Katherine Dang. In crisp tones, she admonished her audience: “Don’t keep a diary. If you don’t want anyone to read it, you should never write it down.”

In theory, I agreed with her wisdom. In practice, I allowed myself to fall under the deceptive charms of Fresh White Pages and Exquisite Binding.

Looking back, I wouldn’t say my time spent in self-examination, goal-setting, and introspection was wrong. Yet now I confidently follow and promote the principle of writing for a purpose, even in our personal lives.

We choose to homeschool in order to create a family legacy and impart a cultural and spiritual heritage. Therefore, we ought to write—and teach our children to write—with the forward-minded intention of leaving a legacy. Parents and students alike can create a journal legacy filled with snippets that future generations will learn from and thoroughly enjoy.

Create Character Sketches

The best journaling practice I’ve discovered is creating character sketches. How many people come into our lives for a season, only to move on or pass away before we’ve taken time to capture them in words? How many brothers, sisters, friends will grow up and change before we’ve reflected on the wonder and beauty of their earlier seasons of life?

Journal Legacy | A Journal Legacy | Help teens create a goldmine of unforgettable snapshots of the people in their lifeEach of us becomes a fuller, richer person for having crossed paths with a spirited daughter, sympathetic teacher, insightful grandfather, or iron-sharpens-iron friend. Their image, their words, and their effect on us ought not to be forgotten.

So find a quiet place, and invite your children to join you. Choose a new pen and a bright, fresh page. Close your eyes and think of someone who touched your life last year, last week, or this very morning, perhaps, writing your impressions of:

  • A child’s peculiar gait: the way he runs up to you out of breath and full of laughter, or the way he rambles with hands in pockets and head in the clouds.
  • An elderly aunt’s odd speech habits: the outdated expressions she uses on Sundays, or the pet names she bestows on each family member.
  • A brother’s endearing  facial expressions: the puzzled wrinkle of his eyebrows as he wrestles with a math problem, or his unconscious mouth-puckering at piano recitals.
  • A mother’s deep impression on you: the day she cried over long-forgotten photos, or the night she soothed your fever and sang you to sleep.

Defer Perfection

Remember, journals are for sketching, with plenty of rough edges but a wealth of heartfelt truth. You can fill in the sketch with color and details later, perhaps when you complete a WriteShop lesson.

If you do write your novel someday, you can sweat and strive to paint the perfect masterpiece, with every nuance of character in faithful hues of light and shade. For now, relax. Smile. Breathe. Your journal is becoming a goldmine of those unforgettable moments you’ve shared with remarkable, everyday people.

Don’t forget that you’re one of them.

Daniella Dautrich is a homeschool graduate and WriteShop alumna. A happily married writer and homemaker, she blogs at www.waterlilywriter.wordpress.com

Photos: Barabeke and Joy Coffman, courtesy of Creative Commons.
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2 comments ↓

#1 Beth Cregan on 08.20.12 at 3:47 pm

Love this post and it’s very timely as I head out today to present a workshop about keeping a journal. We might just do a character sketch! Thanks for the great idea.

#2 Kim on 08.20.12 at 3:58 pm

How fabulous, Beth! Hope your workshop is a great success. {Love your website, by the way!}

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